Do you have the right attitude to attract Mr. or Ms. Right?
This is part 8 in the series of Attracting Healthy Love.
There is an old saying that says: Is your attitude worth catching? This valid question demands and answer. Combine this with searching for the perfect person and we create an interesting dynamic within ourselves.
Many years ago, prior to dating my wife, I sometimes browsed the personal ads in newspapers. (this was before the on line dating scene) While viewing them, several common denominators became clear to me about the people looking for that special someone. In large, most seemed to be looking for what they could get, not what they could give.
Creating and building a healthy loving relationship is an attitude. It is a mindset that expresses our core beliefs about the way we think a relationship should be. As I said earlier in this series, if the results you have received up to this point have not yielded you the results you are looking for, then something needs to change.
That change, more than likely, is your attitude. Very few people want to be around someone who has a poor attitude. It's draining and repelling. I have met people who some would call successful but have a crappy attitude. The result is, people don't want to be around them. On the other side of the coin, I have met people who have little but their attitude shines like the sun and they attract multitudes of friends.
Carrying a positive, supportive attitude around with you each day is essential if you are going to attract the right kind of person into your life. You cannot have a poor attitude and expect that special person to show up in your life and bring you a positive one. To think this way is naive.
Take an honest look at yourself. Is your attitude worth catching? Ask your employer. They will tell you the truth. Better yet, look at your last performance review. This could be a good way for you to see how others view your attitude. The attitude you carry at your work, should be the same attitude you carry in your personal life. If it's not, you may want to ask yourself why this is.
Having a good attitude does not mean everything is perfect either. It means you are choosing to look past the struggles and challenges of the present and not let it bring you down. Yes, attitude is a choice and it will make all the difference in the world when it comes to you attracting the kind of spouse you desire.
So, if Mr. or Ms. Right presented themselves today, can you say your attitude would be one they would want to be around?
Next week is part 9 in the series of Attracting Healthy Love.
Have a great Friday everyone, be blessed.
This is part 8 in the series of Attracting Healthy Love.
There is an old saying that says: Is your attitude worth catching? This valid question demands and answer. Combine this with searching for the perfect person and we create an interesting dynamic within ourselves.
Many years ago, prior to dating my wife, I sometimes browsed the personal ads in newspapers. (this was before the on line dating scene) While viewing them, several common denominators became clear to me about the people looking for that special someone. In large, most seemed to be looking for what they could get, not what they could give.
Creating and building a healthy loving relationship is an attitude. It is a mindset that expresses our core beliefs about the way we think a relationship should be. As I said earlier in this series, if the results you have received up to this point have not yielded you the results you are looking for, then something needs to change.
That change, more than likely, is your attitude. Very few people want to be around someone who has a poor attitude. It's draining and repelling. I have met people who some would call successful but have a crappy attitude. The result is, people don't want to be around them. On the other side of the coin, I have met people who have little but their attitude shines like the sun and they attract multitudes of friends.
Carrying a positive, supportive attitude around with you each day is essential if you are going to attract the right kind of person into your life. You cannot have a poor attitude and expect that special person to show up in your life and bring you a positive one. To think this way is naive.
Take an honest look at yourself. Is your attitude worth catching? Ask your employer. They will tell you the truth. Better yet, look at your last performance review. This could be a good way for you to see how others view your attitude. The attitude you carry at your work, should be the same attitude you carry in your personal life. If it's not, you may want to ask yourself why this is.
Having a good attitude does not mean everything is perfect either. It means you are choosing to look past the struggles and challenges of the present and not let it bring you down. Yes, attitude is a choice and it will make all the difference in the world when it comes to you attracting the kind of spouse you desire.
So, if Mr. or Ms. Right presented themselves today, can you say your attitude would be one they would want to be around?
Next week is part 9 in the series of Attracting Healthy Love.
Have a great Friday everyone, be blessed.
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