Attracting Healthy Love

Have you ever felt like finding that perfect someone may never happen?  Well, you’re right, it may not… unless you are willing to make some changes.

Everywhere we look we see a friend, family member or co-worker looking for the ideal mate.  Those words "If only I could find someone that..." you fill in the blank.  What does, "If only..." mean?  It almost sounds like a plea of some sort, or a wish upon a star - straight out of a kid’s book, that hopefully, one day, will come true.  Have you ever heard this before?

Then there is the person who seems to find that perfect person.  Oh, they are so incredibly happy!  Six months or a year later, they have found the next perfect person.  Funny thing is they seem to be even happier than the last time.  A year or two later and there has been three or four perfect someone's and they still are looking for the next one.  Sound familiar?

Some find Mr. or Ms. Right and then find out they were not Mr. or Ms. Right.  They were, in fact, Mr. or Ms. Toxic!  Manipulation, abuse, guilt, all of the self destructive habits and beliefs slowly start to destroy what seemed like the perfect match. 

There are many reasons why it seems impossible to find someone who will give you the kind of love you are searching for.  One of the bigger struggles seems to be finding someone who will leave their unpacked baggage out of your life.  If you’re wondering, is this actually possible?  I will tell you, yes it is!

Next week, we will start a lengthy series entitled: Attracting Healthy Love.  This series will cover a variety of topics which are prudent to every relationship you have, will have and have had.  Some of the subject matter will be intimate.  Other ideas may strike a nerve and you may not agree.  The most in-depth subject covered will be you!

If you’re serious about uncovering the key to finding a healthy spouse, or if you know of someone who is, this series may be exactly what is needed.  Be prepared though, this material might have life-changing affects.  Ask yourself, are you really, really ready for some answers?  You may start to feel uncomfortable with what is shared, all of which could be a sign that you need to make some changes... from within!

If you are sick and tired of finding the wrong person and wondering if a long-lasting love will ever come your way, you need this.  This is for you.

Next week, we will dive into: Attracting Healthy Love.

Have a great Friday everyone, be blessed.